Forums » General » Special Interests » How many times you BBFS? #2







tophat  Mastov
Since: May-2015
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I would like to continue my BBFS thread. Original thread here: https://www.nightshift.co/forums/special-interests/topics/how-many-times-you-bbfs. Feel free to keep sharing your dirt if you're brave enough.







tophat  Sir_Benjamin_083
Since: Oct-2015
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Did you try doing a search? There are plenty of BBFS topics.

https://www.nightshift.co/searchforums?utf8=%E2%9C%93&search=BBFS&searchtype=tap







tophat  Mastov
Since: May-2015
pushpin 106


Did you try doing a search? There are plenty of BBFS topics.

https://www.nightshift.co/searchforums?utf8=%E2%9C%93&search=BBFS&searchtype=tap
--- Yes, I check every day. Most of them are actually mine. However they are in other categories and serve a different purpose. This thread is meant for people to share real experiences.







tophat  jfarrell7233
Since: Feb-2015
pushpin 22 - 3 Reviews


Although I do agree that BBFS is essentially playing Russian roulette, especially when you have a significant other, I have enjoyed that guilty pleasure several times with providers. Luckily, I've came out clean, I did see one provider regularly who loved getting anal creampies, so naturally I filled her up every time I saw her. I did feel comfortable and trusted her though. Then I've made a few bad decisions with streetwalkers while super drunk, however, as mentioned I got lucky and stayed clean. Definitely wouldn't partake again.







tophat  villipiano
Since: Sep-2014
pushpin 45


Just happened to me a couple weeks ago for the first time.  A well reviewed veteran provider, with no inkling of this in any of her reviews.  I Thought it was PTP but she pulled me in and did not want to stop.  Good for ego but not good for many other reasons.







tophat  justadudeplaying
Since: Jan-2015
pushpin 435 - 2 Reviews


They have a name for people who do BBFS.







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tophat  Ej1234
Since: Dec-2015
pushpin 1 - 5 Reviews


Been offered more than once, both for extra money and in the heat of the moment...so far have been able to avoid the temptation.







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tophat  cluck
Since: Nov-2015
pushpin 63 - 3 Reviews


It happened for me twice, years and years back.

First time was with an Asian provider I saw multiple times. She eventually got comfortable with me and we hung out on her day off. Even though she was on vacation, we got a hotel room and did it (for free). Since I wasn't expecting anything, I wasn't carrying a rubber. From then on, whenever I saw her (paid), she let me do it without a condom. I probably spent thousands on her.

Second time was completely unexpected. The provider was having a hard time getting the condom on me (not bragging, just saying). She threw it aside and basically said "fuck it" and mounted me (without my permission). My first reaction was utter shock and horror. The second reaction was "holy shit, this is hot." The third reaction (about 20 minutes later) was "oh my god, I have AIDS."

Luckily, I checked myself and I was free of any disease - HIV, herpes or otherwise. I got really lucky and I'll never take that chance again. I'm still VD-free somehow, after all this time.







Machu
tophat  Arosco5
Since: May-2015
pushpin 105 - 8 Reviews


My first reaction was utter shock and horror. The second reaction was "holy shit, this is hot." The third reaction (about 20 minutes later) was "oh my god, I have AIDS."


Consider yourself lucky....you still have no idea who or how many other clients your Asian ATF had other than you that might have done the same.  Or if there was ever a history of drug use.   

I've luckily have never been in that position and am not looking for it either.  I laugh only because, I think this is exactly how I would react.   I don't think I would be able to get results from a screen fast enough.  Do they have 24 hr clinics that check stuff like that? 
I would want to know right then. 







Cluck
tophat  cluck
Since: Nov-2015
pushpin 63 - 3 Reviews


Do they have 24 hr clinics that check stuff like that? 
I would want to know right then. 

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Standard tests take about 1-2 weeks for results. I'm sure there's a premium you could pay for faster service.

For HIV testing, they recommend you wait 3 months after the initial encounter in order to properly detect for antibodies. Which means you'll be living with that stress for at least 3 months before your fears are either confirmed or denied. Definitely NOT WORTH IT.

As for my ATF, we had discussed it beforehand so I made the conscious decision to go through with it. She only had one other client she did BBFS with, and she got tested regularly too, so I knew she was clean. (No drug use either, she was a mom trying to make enough money for her family back home. We stayed in touch quite a bit over the years, though she now permanently resides in Taiwan.)







tophat  venkatron
Since: Jan-2015
pushpin 223 - 2 Reviews


RNA tests for HIV can be done within 9-14 days of potential exposure. http://www.sfaf.org/hiv-info/testing/hiv-test-window-periods.html

Learned this after my one and only BBFS experience. The condom broke. It felt amazing for a minute, until I realized why.







tophat  russianroulette
Since: Jun-2015
pushpin 48 - Qr 14 Reviews


I have noticed that the providers that get raving reviews typically are the ones allowing BB anything.  

Some of the "word phrase flags" are 
"I won't go into details..."
"I am not one to kiss and tell"
"YMMV..."
"treated me like a former lover..."
"she doesn't know the word no..."
"almost anything goes..."

You get the picture, when I see these phrases consistently in a providers review, I am pretty sure I know what possibility exists.  I have seen enough of these women and very rarely am I told to put a condom on, of course I stop before entering and make sure to cover up but rarely am am I asked to do so.







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rose  LollyPoptart
Vip  Since: Jul-2015
pushpin 2990 - 68 Reviews


That's a pretty huge generalization, lol. The first three phrases appear in loads of my reviews because I am a PTA mom of four and specifically ask my gentleman callers not to leave detailed blow-by-blow reviews. My service ratings are not achieved with bbfs, thanks. 







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tophat  californicated1
Since: Jul-2014
pushpin 371 - 2 Reviews


We really need to cut down on the talk about BBFS.

Given that this forum may be read by Law Enforcement, they could probably use what is being written in this forum as evidence against a provider for prostitution and pandering charges, or against a client for solicitation charges.

And all it will require at that point is the admission that the person, be they provider or client, admit in person in front of the cop, be they undercover or in uniform, that one is the person using a specific handle on this forum.

And when it comes to any act one searches for anywhere, it really should be consensual and everybody should be comfortable with it, but it shouldn't be broadcast to the outside world and this forum should be considered "outside world".

Sorry if I come off as "preachy", here, it's not what's intended, but my words here should be treated more as "caution" at this point.







tophat  rjhoneycomb
Since: Feb-2016
pushpin 49 - 5 Reviews


Sure... I've BBFS a number of times. More than a hundred. But I've never done it with anyone who gave me a bad vibe, smelled funny or was overly old or high on drugs. Usually is with a previous provider who I've trust hasn't been "too busy". 

In other words, use common sense. You don't want to be going raw in a cum bucket. But if you feel she is a low mileage provider and have a personal connection with her then why not?

I have never contacted a STD and only ounce caught an infection, which I assume I got from a BBBJ from a AMP, which I cleaned up in a three days with a shot. Which is amazing even you account for the fact I have had BBFS hundreds of times.







tophat  slutcoach
Since: Jul-2015
pushpin 93


...she said i was the only one...







tophat  Mastov
Since: May-2015
pushpin 106


We really need to cut down on the talk about BBFS.

Given that this forum may be read by Law Enforcement, they could probably use what is being written in this forum as evidence against a provider for prostitution and pandering charges, or against a client for solicitation charges.

And all it will require at that point is the admission that the person, be they provider or client, admit in person in front of the cop, be they undercover or in uniform, that one is the person using a specific handle on this forum.

And when it comes to any act one searches for anywhere, it really should be consensual and everybody should be comfortable with it, but it shouldn't be broadcast to the outside world and this forum should be considered "outside world".

Sorry if I come off as "preachy", here, it's not what's intended, but my words here should be treated more as "caution" at this point.
--- Yeah like law enforcement cares whether someone is breaking the law with or without a condom... you're not coming off as preachy, you're coming off as illogical.







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tophat  anon103
Vip  Verifiedbadge Since: May-2015
pushpin 1677 - Qr 55 Reviews


We really need to cut down on the talk about BBFS.
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What really needs to be cut down on is people jumping on their soap boxes and looking down on OPs for fetishes they don't condone.  If you aren't into the topic at hand, move on.  No need for yet another diatribe about the dangers of BBFS.  Odds are I will die in a car accident on the way to a session before contracting VD.







tophat  birdhead
Since: Feb-2015
pushpin 5


OMG anal creampies? Never been able to find that. You can explode in girls at Nikki's in SF but not anal







tophat  johny
Since: Mar-2015
pushpin 43 - 1 Review


Mastov I was reading on the first topic you posted about this.... sounds like a good time haha can you PM the info ? :)







tophat  Playmissy4me84
Since: Sep-2015
pushpin 726 - Qr 13 Reviews


Mastov is no longer with us.







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tophat  Asfandan
Since: Apr-2016
pushpin 509 - Qr 20 Reviews


The last time I did BBFS with a provider was around 1986-87. It has been offered to me a few times since then. In each case I declined and never booked that provider again.







tophat  dumbass
Since: Jan-2015
pushpin 38 - 5 Reviews


Been offered lots of times; probably more than I realize (I always bring my own condom; very often they don't have one). Had a couple of condoms break. The most hilarious time was in fact with an AAMP; for some reason she lubed her chooch with baby oil, and my (very thin fancy japanese latex okamato which I will never again purchase) condom exploded as she was mounting me. Her eyes got big and she just pulled the remaining bits off and got on board. I was kinda sorta OK with his. I mean, it felt great, and psychologically it felt super dirty. Went through the usual paranoia. Nothing bad happened; I am clean as a whistle.

Two things which BBFS warriors should know about, which might help them remain free of diseases. I have no medline studies to back these up, but there is anecdotal evidence and biological plausibility.
1) Take a leak after sex. They used to teach this to soldiers. Biology hasn't changed, even if culture has.
2) If you know you're going to hit it raw, put some oil or cocoa butter on your dick. This isn't as much of a barrier as a rubber on your john thomas, but the thin layer of oil does provide some protection from viruses. An extra few microns of protection over your dong's epidermis. If you have any microabrasions, it might help.

This is of no help to providers of course, and should be taken in the spirit of harm reduction rather than encouragement.

FWIIW HIV infections in South Korea are virtually unheard of, so it's no surprise they don't fear teh GRIDS. Basically nobody in the entire country has ever gotten it. Yes, I know a few have: very few.


In the spirit of good advice, sagami original 0.02's are pretty much as good as BBFS if the woman is lubed properly. They're also a lot stronger than latex.







tophat  johny
Since: Mar-2015
pushpin 43 - 1 Review


Haha okay cool. I ordered a couple of those .02 condoms your talking about. Haven't got a chance to try them out yet though. Hope it really feels as good as people say lol







tophat  johny
Since: Mar-2015
pushpin 43 - 1 Review


I've done it with 7 providers in the time span of 6 years since I started all this.... I had a good reliable filipina chick for a long time, but then I lost her number when I lost my phone :/