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tophat Homes58
Since: Oct '15
pushpin 14 - 4 Reviews


Hi All,

wondering if you have ever been to a swingers event, I would love to experience something like that, but I understand that it’s hard to partake if your a single male. Any information on this topic would greatly be appreciated. Please PM me.

thank you

Homes58







tophat jason1714
Since: Jun '16
pushpin 33 - 1 Review


Me to!







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rose ExoticAnjali
Since: Jul '15 Vip  
pushpin 625 - 58 Reviews


There are special forums for group events, swingers parties, in the NS community all over Norcal. Just consider upgrading to VIP to join those private groups. 







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rose shelbyhasthemouth
Since: Mar '17
pushpin 212 - 33 Reviews


I would love to accompany you if interested, from what i hear you walk in together and then can play together or go seperate ways.i have always wanted to attend but just not alone "just lil ole me" gets a tad nervous.







tophat starbucksrefill
Since: Aug '17
pushpin 17 - 3 Reviews


i've attended small gatherings 5-6 years ago.







tophat Beefy
Since: Dec '14
pushpin 1524 - 6 Reviews


This is a good entry level group


https://baygblovers.com/bay-area-group


A good place to look for these events is fetlife.com generally guys will pay 40-150 per event couples 60 and women are pretty much always free. It is important to note these events are generally not p4p events the donation nominally goes towards venue, food, supplies, etc. It pays to pay attention, ask permission, and be I won’t say a gentlemen, but rather respectful, grooming hygiene and cleanliness are major importance.


The biggest thing about these events is remember “when in Rome” not saying let some dude do something you are uncomfortable with but group dynamics can get fluid quickly make sure before you put a finger or anything else in an ass it is welcome, and how a women wants a cumshot etc some women want an assembly line of guys to pound them hard and then blast their face some pick out 1-2 guys and pretty much devote all their time effort to them it is group play that doesn’t mean it is a free for all.







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tophat MrRoboto
Since: May '17
pushpin 1847 - Qr 13 Reviews


Looks like a better deal than a NS event.







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tophat Errantwind347
Since: Jul '15 Vip  
pushpin 398 - 27 Reviews


Only in a monetary sense.







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rose GladrielMoonR
Since: Sep '16
pushpin 173 - 58 Reviews


Swinger events is usually just that. Must bring a partner or be denied or pay a hefty fine. Theres also another term called Intimate parties. Its where 2 or 3 providers host and a set number of hobbyists attend. Food and drinks provided and everyone gets a choice to play or if your just interested in watching then you can Voyeur. Some parties also have a recording room. Its where you can make your own videos ☺. Some of the parties Ive hosted or attended Im told are really great. One can get in on some play and when one gets tired you can get a sub and a soda and just watch. Some actually have a porn producer experience as well. Its all optional. Some parties also have a No camera policy. It all just depends. 


Do remember though that parties like these require 2 or more references. You can forum search : party results for some pix or some general information of old parties. More intimate answers for intimate questions however will require further vetting.







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rose VanessaBella
Since: Dec '16
pushpin 846 - 35 Reviews


I've been to twist in sf a few times and it has yet to disappoint. I am sure you can find a lady or 3 to accommodate you there. The beautiful anjali beat me to the vip punchline... Ns surely has some great events! 


Hope your swinger search yeilds what you're looking for!







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rose MissLizzy
Since: Nov '16 Vip  
pushpin 656 - 17 Reviews


I enjoy attending events all over Cali on Weekends. Both Swinger Party & Gangbang. The only thing I hate about Swinger Party is its mostly Couples & Single Ladies with a few Selected Gentlemen. There's a lot of talking. That's why I prefer Gangbang Events. You walk in and chat or straight to playing. The ratio of Single Men is higher but perfect for women who want that. Ive attend all the Parties and Event in the Bay Area, from Club SJGB to Twist & almost all of them in Sac. I usually never go alone. 







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tophat Drew40901
Since: Jun '16 Vip  
pushpin 93 - 13 Reviews


Twist is currently expirementing with women’s fantasy nights on Sundays.  They allow couples and high class single men with the intent being that women get more attention.   I have not gone to a Sunday night but it sounds like fun.  I have taken a date to their normal Friday night party (couples and single women only). It was a lot of fun like Vanessa said.   There was a lot more girl on girl than I expected.  Fortunately my date was an awesome wingman and got me a lot of Civvie opportunities with the women there.  I would highly recommend it.  







tophat Homes58
Since: Oct '15
pushpin 14 - 4 Reviews


Thank you to my Night Shift Family for all the great feedback







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tophat FredNorris
Since: Jul '17
pushpin 313


you missed out on the golden age of the 90's when Nici Sterling used to host gangbangs in the hollywood hills.

(by invite only)

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she and her then husband were known swingers in the day

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rose BillionDolla_P
Since: Jul '14
pushpin 208 - 60 Reviews


If you need someone to go with, I'd be willing to go..I've been interested in trying this too! 







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tophat MrRoboto
Since: May '17
pushpin 1847 - Qr 13 Reviews


If you need someone to go with, I'd be willing to go..I've been interested in trying this too! 

---Would you require a donation to accompany someone or do it gratis?







tophat Al85
Since: Dec '16
pushpin 112


Let’s try together I always wanted to







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tophat MrRoboto
Since: May '17
pushpin 1847 - Qr 13 Reviews


How would one get started if he was going to arrange something with a civvie?

The other party doesn't know anything about hobbying.








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tophat charlesm
Since: Mar '15 Vip  
pushpin 477 - 4 Reviews


Either give him the 101 to Hobbying, or tell him it's a swingers party and Just explain that.







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tophat MrRoboto
Since: May '17
pushpin 1847 - Qr 13 Reviews


Its a she so I am not sure about the Hobbying part.







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tophat charlesm
Since: Mar '15 Vip  
pushpin 477 - 4 Reviews


Yeah, but the idea of swingers parties are fairly common at this point. Depends mostly on her level of maturity and beliefs. Each person is different, etc.


Maybe a hypothetical question or ask her opinion about it first? I wouldn't jump into an invite.


Dunno why I read he.... Weird.







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tophat MrRoboto
Since: May '17
pushpin 1847 - Qr 13 Reviews


Yeah has already experimented with other couples.  I'm the newbie! 

The hobby is the only out of the ordinary sexual activity for me.







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tophat charlesm
Since: Mar '15 Vip  
pushpin 477 - 4 Reviews


Ah-ha! Then you get to ask her to tell you about it/break you in! That can make things a bit easier, but still a slippery slope. You're gonna have to let us know how it ends up working out.







tophat Homes58
Since: Oct '15
pushpin 14 - 4 Reviews


Hi sweetie, well it would be nice if you show me around one of these parties. I've only heard about and checked em out on You Tube.  My new year's resolution, Attending one some time next year for sure. Are you game?

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