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rose Ashley barbiebaby
Since: Feb-2017 Vip  
pushpin 13 - 11 Reviews


I always like to say ymmv on the bbbj because I never know if people are going to be extra hairy, extra aggressive, or extra excited and have lots of pre-cum. 


I love giving a wet, sloppy bj, but is it really that big of a deal if there is a cover on? 


Lets discuss







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tophat heyjoe
Since: Jul-2014 Vip  
pushpin 770 - Qr 23 Reviews


no bbbj no date ... simple ... 







tophat daddy_kool
Since: Oct-2015
pushpin 1346


For four bills an hour? You bet it is. 


What would having a cover on have to do with being "extra hairy, extra aggressive or extra excited"? And this fear of "pre-cum"...this is beginning to sound like indeed you do not love giving a wet sloppy bj. Maybe that is just my impression.


alright

dkool








tophat easymorning
Since: May-2015 Vip  
pushpin 366 - 7 Reviews


Great post. I think you hit the nail on the proverbial head (sorry, bad pun couldn't help myself).  Personally, a bbbj is my favorite thing aside from DATY.

 However, I completely understand YMMV on the part of a provider.


I always take care to be freshly showered, scrubbed, and neatly trimmed down below for any session and I make no assumptions on service even if it's clear that GFE is advertised on the menu. 


It's not rocket science by any stretch of the imagination, but I'm continually amazed by the fact that many dudes don't take care of basic hygiene and putting in full effort to make an excellent first impression.


Preparation rather than expectation goes a long way as a hobbyist...










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rose Ashley barbiebaby
Since: Feb-2017 Vip  
pushpin 13 - 11 Reviews


For four bills an hour? You bet it is. 


What would having a cover on have to do with....


---it's all about hygiene. There are lots of guys with hair up the shaft or who clean up but forget that the last time they used the restroom and did the shake the pubes still smell like urine.   Uncircumcised guys don't clean under the fold....  you grossed out yet?  I don't think any amount of dollars per hour should be expected to deal with being treated aggressively at all let alone having your face rammed into smelly pubic hair. 🤷‍♀️  


YMMV Be clean and respectful and I'll give you the world. Walk in like daddy kool acting like I owe you something or deserve some smelly hairy cock....  don't expect anything other than to be asked to leave. 







Felixbag
tophat peckerotis
Since: Jul-2016
pushpin 846 - 4 Reviews


For me BBBJ is essential for any date, no matter with whom, or how much. No BBBJ, no deal.







tophat daddy_kool
Since: Oct-2015
pushpin 1346


You ask a question and get an answer and then act like a (deleted). Figures. Next.



alright

dkool

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Mod edit: Flame removed. 

CL

*Moderated on Aug 14, 2017 at 10:21 PM PDT







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tophat GetMyFix
Since: Jul-2017
pushpin 46 - 1 Review


I seen this gfe provider and didn't even mention she crack a tooth and can't do bbbj until mid session. She didn't even bother giving me a discount or a heads up when scheduling. At least you mention it on your AD so it's not a surprise if the gentleman doesn't get bbbj. It's their fault for not seeing you clean or shave properly since it's clearly stated on your AD.







tophat Milagro
Since: Dec-2016 Vip  
pushpin 462


Ashley, First off thanks for asking and providing your rationale.


I agree with you on the hygiene issue. However, for me personally i always shave especially the shaft, balls, taint and ass.


For me its a question of not having the sensitivity I used to and a condom is a no go as I really prefer oral.







tophat nately
Since: Oct-2015 Vip  
pushpin 256 - 15 Reviews




cbj vs bbbj is like night and day, so yes, the cover is a very big deal


A good hand job is way better than cbj, but a good bbbj is better than either, much, much better


i would expect an experienced provider would know this


If hygiene is an issue, then the dudes should hit the shower; well, they should do this anyway, always, at the beginning of a session


isn't that the standard practice?


i think manscaping and grooming of the pubes should be standard practice for dudes who want bbbj, but of course, that is at their own discretion


And it is at your discretion as a provider that if you don't like the condition of their junk, you should just ask them to leave









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tophat EmperorJNorton
Since: Apr-2017
pushpin 541 - 6 Reviews




cbj vs bbbj is like night and day, so yes, the cover is a very big deal


A good hand job is way better than cbj, but a good bbbj is better than either, much, much better


i would expect an experienced provider would know this


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tophat cocorbr
Since: May-2015
pushpin 66 - 12 Reviews


Not a deal killer, but bbbj definitely preferred.







Fz24q
tophat dmo85
Since: Oct-2016
pushpin 39 - 9 Reviews


It would take an uncommon set of other combined factors for me to accept a cbj. BBBJ is HIGHLY preferred.







tophat alpineride1299
Since: Jul-2015
pushpin 175 - 13 Reviews


It makes a big difference. You do make a point though, which is pretty much boiler plate these days. Clean, clean, and groomed. I shave all of it and like to shower when I get there. I want to take every step I can to get the best service I can. I can understand why you don't want to suck on a hairy, sweaty dick because I feel exactly the same way about pussy. But I love to eat pussy so please make sure it's clean and I'll do the same. At the end of day it's up you but its sure nice to know you enjoy it. 

While I'm at it, you're fucking insanely gorgeous baby and I'm saving my duckets for a visit. 







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tophat juster
Since: Oct-2015
pushpin 79


I think it'll always be ymmv and hygiene is very important, but price is also always a big factor. Most hobbyist will probably have done some research already and be expecting the same service others have received. When certain services are not provided should a hobbyist still be paying the same full donation as others or should the donation be lowered?







tophat Howsthebecky
Since: Nov-2015
pushpin 235 - 13 Reviews


Cbj does absolutely nothing for me and is a total waste of time. It defeats the whole purpose. It's like kissing your sister - just an exercise in total lameness. If the mileage varies in the direction of not providing a bbbj, then you should give the guy a refund and let him go elsewhere. Or work to find a solution that will allow it to happen. 







tophat V3rmi1ion
Since: Dec-2016
pushpin 28 - 3 Reviews


if these 200+ girls want that amount of roses they better give bbbj!







tophat mattwfoley
Since: Aug-2014
pushpin 512 - 18 Reviews


Life is a YMMV situation.....


The top providers I have ever seen always welcomed me with a hug and smile, a little small talk and then the offer of a shower...which wasn't an offer but rather a requirement....in fact one of the great providers ever from the RB days had it in her ad to place the donation in plain site, use the shower, rinse with the mouthwash provided and meet me in the room for fun.....doesn't take much to help the client get clean at your incall.


you can also jump in the shower with the fella and scrub his junk as foreplay if he doesn't look like he understands soap and water.


many guys aren't looking to donate 400 for a cbj. if you took bbbj off the table, your clientele would change a whole lot.


finally, denying a fella bbbj can be seen by some as bait and switch. bbbj is an accepted and expected part of gfe....if you are always looking for and giving reasons not to do it, your rep will suffer as more reviewers recount denying bbbj for not being up to your standard...which can be arbitrary....which can change from client to client....which each reviewer can deny he wasn't clean and fresh, and like it or not, the review stays with you and fellas tend to believe other fellas....


I would also disagree with flaming a guy on the board for stating his opinion. when you ask for people's thoughts in a public forum, you aren't going to like/agree with every response...just make a note of that handle and avoid the fella here or if he contacts for a session.







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rose Kitten
Since: Aug-2016
pushpin 49 - 22 Reviews


Just curious...what part of her answer made you make such a rude and inappropriate reply back to her? How many stinky hairy nasty cocks have

 you had shoved in your face wanting to get sucked off? What was that? Well until you have don't you dare call any of us providers such a vulgar name when trying to make a valid point on how and why we provide our services the way we do. You can pick and choose who you go to we can pick and choose who we see. What makes you think you are so much better than us? Your condescending attitude and snarky remarks trying in vain to achieve superiority just show who you really are: an insecure little bitch trying to hang in a Mans world....you really owe her an apology. That's what a real Man would do....

Kitten💋







tophat addictedtolove
Since: Aug-2014 Vip  
pushpin 314 - Qr 9 Reviews


I always like to say ymmv on the bbbj because I never know if people are going to be extra hairy, extra aggressive, or extra excited and have lots of pre-cum. 


I love giving a wet, sloppy bj, but is it really that big of a deal if there is a cover on? 


Lets discuss


Think daty with Saran Wrap and you'll understand.

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Arlee this is my avatarthere are many like it but this one is mine
tophat heyjoe
Since: Jul-2014 Vip  
pushpin 770 - Qr 23 Reviews


welcome to nightshift .we hope you enjoy your stay with us .....i see you are now acquainted with daddykool....more snarkiness to follow as there are many men here that hate the ladies ..but there are a few gentlemen here too...screen carefully


Win 3





Megatron2
tophat Megatron
Since: Aug-2014
pushpin 2325 - 11 Reviews


Winner! when I used to go to AAMPs it was an unspoken requirement that I took a brief shower at the very least to wash my private area. And yes sometimes the asian masseuse would jump into the shower with me to scrub me. Now that is what I call Customer Service. A concept many american escorts do not get.


What's the point of you ladies complaining? just put it in your ad and/or tell your client that he is expected to take a shower before play. And tell him beforehand that if he is not up to hygiene standard after the shower the date will be cancelled.


What's so hard about that?


PS:  Note to providers:  if you find "pre-cum" icky and disgusting it's a sign you're not made out for this line of work. Afterall you are a "professional" sex worker. Think medical professionals who can't stand blood, or plumbing professionals who can't stand sewage, or roofing professionals who are terrified of height... ridiculous!







tophat daddy_kool
Since: Oct-2015
pushpin 1346


And I think her little excuses about worst case scenarios that don't really happen just reveal what is really at work here: she wants to do less for more, or preferably, to just get paid for sitting there looking "curvy", and she wants some validation for that viewpoint, which you and certain others here are more than happy to supply. At her rate, she should either suck it up (literally) or find another trade. And I would have to assume that a little cim isn't going to happen with her either, not with her evident aversion to "pre-cum". That makes me think she moves to the other side of the room at the first sign of any fluids and that is not a part of any fantasy I have ever had, at least not one in which I hand over four big ones. 


Next.


alright

dkool

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mod edit: flaming removed


*Moderated on Aug 14, 2017 at 10:25 PM PDT